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It could be more complicated but it really isn't.
In life, we make choices.
Some things are what I call winning games and others are not winning games.
Since time is money, who we choose to spend time with impacts us. By us I mean our mind/body/spirit/growth potential.
We weren't born to just be still and not move and possibly shrivel.
Trees don't behave that way. And they need certain things to grow. And these are remarkably simple.
Sticking in relationships (all kinds) for very long periods of time - maybe even decades - when we know in our belly or core that they are limiting our movement towards the sun is hampering.
And if we don't want to be "selfish" about it since we are so bad at doing things often for ourselves, think about whomever we are somewhat attached.
That ball and chain that we are tied to is also tied to the other person.
So free them too. And then you even get to find yourself free.
This is a win-win, actually.
And that is pretty sweet when humanity is the biggest winner. Forget about you two.
:)