This is Where Most People Screw up related to love.

People, I Love em. But we fuck shit up today, and are limited in ways we look at and see things when it relates what Freud termed the ego. Take Love <3<3<3, oh that thing that everybody is after SUP BUMBL, SUP TINDER SUP INSTA whatever, the difficulty is that when we are in it, depending on our experiences, it can consume the shit out of us, and instead of being an Expansive thing and widen our world (which it is intended - and a thing which I have experienced) it can make us more self focused, because these are just the Neurons it is working on. It doesn't mean we do not have other neurons, SHARED neurons actually that can help us enjoy, deal with, and learn to live and move from these feelings as the escalate and deviate in Life. But we need to see it as something larger, something more shared, and know that there is a point where love is Final. And we need be open to this thing, because it can bring you all the joy and light one true Life can Bring. Tha main point here, is being that love is not meant to consume a soul, but to Grow a Soul, a soul into something that all people around us can actually and more accurately Know.  Because that is what we deserve. As People.  People who know.  And people who still can almost equally be in Control.  :)                   *give Health give Truth give Light give Nature Seek Being